M: Okay, so we have to come up with something for this White House deal...
A: You mean, besides the slam poetry.
M: Yeah.
A: Because you and me and the slam poetry -- that's not happening.
M: Power of Words... Power of Words.
A: Let's not over-think this. It's not that hard. All we ever do all day is use words. We write, we talk.
M: Some of us talk more than others.
A: Cute. It's just, you know, this is for the President of the United States, and the whole First Family. No pressure.
M: Wait a minute. "We use words." "Use your words." You know how we're always saying that to our kids? Don't have a tantrum, use your words. Put down that rock and use your words.
A: Actually, what we say now is, "Don't you want to be like Malia and Sasha?" "Malia and Sasha use their words." "Malia and Sasha make their beds every day."
M: Why can't our children be more like Malia and Sasha?
A: Focus, dude.
M: Right. So, the idea is to teach our kids that language--persuasive language, language that appeals to the heart, the intellect, the senses, is the greatest instrument and power we possess to resolve our differences. That to resort to other means--tantrums, rocks, guns, armies--is as destructive and ultimately as powerless for us as for the people we ought to be talking to.
A: You're saying we go to the White House with "The pen is mightier than the sword." That's your A material?
M: I know. I know. But the thing is... I mean, why is this so hard to learn? For them, and for us. Why is this something that we have to keep teaching them, and ourselves, again and again and again?
A: Because to use language, to really use it to its fullest and greatest potential, takes so many things. It takes training in vocabulary, syntax, grammar. It takes exposure to great works of literature, to style and rhetoric. But above all, more than anything else, to harness the power of language to its fullest, you need to be able to put yourself in the place of the person you're talking to.
M: You have to be able to imagine.
A: Right. To imagine what they're thinking, how they must be feeling right now, how they might react to the various things you might say or the ways you might say them. And that's hard.
M: It's the hardest thing in the world. To stand outside yourself. To see things, to see the world, the way other people see them.
A: "The easier it is for you to imagine walking in someone else's shoes, the more difficult it then becomes to do that person harm."
M: Wow, that's so profound, who wrote that?
A: You did.
A beat.
M: So basically, you're telling me, we got nothing.
A: Nope. We could always try that slam. Or maybe a little "cypha?"
M: Still not happening.
I am *so* betting that you guys did this shtick right there in the White House. Because that would have been awesome.
Comment created on May 13, 2009 at 12:02 PM
oh bugger. I didn't read the previous entry yet, didn't I? this *was* your actual performance. so, yeah, awesome! The president is a lucky guy.
Comment created on May 13, 2009 at 12:05 PM
I loved your interview on Fresh Air! And am happy to find your blog. Although I´m not a mother (yet), I really like your approach and will have to pick up your book to read more.
Comment created on May 13, 2009 at 4:16 PM
It's hard to say how well you did without seeing it. Seems funny, but if you can find an actual video link, it would be more helpful. I tried without luck.
Comment created on May 14, 2009 at 2:25 PM
I'm totally going to use this in my classroom - it will reinforce so much of what I keep going on about in terms of specific language and intended audiences.
You're my hero.
Comment created on May 14, 2009 at 4:34 PM